memories

Memories are often the only thing that is left from someone. Good and bad. Long and short. Happy and sad. People would like to have only good memories, and throw the bad ones away. But... is it the right thing to do (if we could..) ? Thinking of the bad memories, sad moments in our lives brings us pain, it is hard for us. But this is exactly what has made our personality. We just have to try think of the good moments, but still remember, that there were also the bad ones. We also have to remember not to stay to long in memories, not to think of them too much. It is easy to turn from remembering to consideration of the past, which is not a good thing. Focus on reality, on the present. And memories...? Keep them in your had, and come back to them sometimes.    They're helpful when you're feeling lonely, if your present is not arranging as you wished it was. But don't sink in them, 'cause it'd only make things worse...

inspiring... :)